How to ask embarrassing medical questions

Sometimes asking certain questions at the doctor’s office can be embarrassing, especially if the question involves gut problems or sexual dysfunction. To cope, it might help to speak with a doctor privately in person; to communicate with the doctor on the phone or via a patient portal; to see a specialist; to write down questions and hand them to the doctor; or to describe a problem in a professional, matter-of-fact way, using medical terms (such as “stool” or “bowel movement” instead of “poop”).